Get Inside Your Prospect’s Head
No one likes to have their day interrupted with a call from a salesperson. But it’s demoralizing to make dial after dial, just to have every prospect hang up when you call them.
By incorporating these four techniques and strategies, you can get a glimpse into your prospect’s mind, build rapport, and significantly increase your chances of making a connection that leads to a closed sale.
Cold Calls Have a Bad Reputation
What’s the first thing that goes through your head when you get a call from a sales rep?
If you answered, “I can’t wait to get them off the phone,” then you’re not alone.
In fact, when a telemarketer calls me up at home and says those words that immediately identify them as a salesperson, the “How are you today?” line, my first thought is, “I’ll be great as soon as I get rid of you!”
One of the biggest mistakes sales reps make who have to call prospects – either to set an appointment, generate interest, or qualify and then send information – is they don’t acknowledge in any way what is going through the prospect’s mind.
Your Cold Call Is An Interruption
Let’s face it, everyone you call has a reaction to being intruded upon, and each of them is having a similar reaction to the one that you and I have.
If you want to successfully connect with your prospect, and earn the precious few seconds it takes to establish rapport and generate some interest, then you must put yourself into the mind of your prospect and enter the conversation that’s going on in their minds.
If you don’t do this, then you will be pitching and pitching and the prospect will just be waiting for you to take a breath so they can get you off the phone.
Four Techniques to Connect with Prospects
So, what can you do to enter this conversation? Incorporate the following three techniques the next time you make a cold call, and watch your call times improve, your confidence grow and your sales and income soar.
Make A Deal With Your Prospect
If we all know that what’s going on in your prospect’s mind is, “Oh, no, not another sales rep”, then why not acknowledge this? Try:
“Now _________, you probably get a lot of these kinds of calls, don’t you? Well, if you’re like me you’re probably wishing you hadn’t answered the phone right about now, so let’s make a deal: I’ll ask you just two quick questions to see if what I have can actually help you (do whatever it is your product or service can do), and if it can and you’re interested, we’ll continue, and if it can’t or you’re not interested, we’ll part ways, is that fair enough?”
Acknowledge Their Busy Schedule
Many times what’s going through a prospect’s mind is that they are too busy to listen at that moment, so they just use the overall brush off of, “I’m not interested,” and this usually gets people off the phone. Here’s how to enter into that conversation:
“_________ if you’re like me you’re probably busy doing a million things so I’ll make this brief. Let me just ask you two quick things and if we find that we’re a fit and you’d like to know more than we can talk about it or we can schedule a time when it’s more convenient, is that fair?”
The nice thing about this technique is that it acknowledges that they’re busy but it gives them the option of spending more time with you now if they like what they hear.
Say These 4 Magic Words
One effective technique to enhance your script is to start with the phrase “Please don’t hang up.”
By incorporating this phrase at the beginning of your script, you can disrupt your prospect’s thought process, prompting them to pause and capturing their undivided attention.
Simply disrupting your prospect long enough to get their attention can be a game-changer on a cold call. It opens the door for further conversation and gives you the opportunity to make a connection and present the value of your product or service— or offer to schedule a meeting at a more convenient time for your prospect.
Establish Common Ground
Another technique to connect with prospects is to establish common ground early in the conversation. This takes a bit of research up front, but is highly effective. You can say something like:
“Hi [Prospect’s Name], I noticed that we both attended the same industry conference last year. I found your presentation on [specific topic] really insightful. I thought it would be great to connect and discuss how we can collaborate further.”
By showing that you have a shared interest or experience, you can create a sense of familiarity and build rapport with your prospect.
Step Into Your Prospect’s Shoes
As you go out and make your cold calls, always ask yourself: “What is my prospect thinking, and how can I speak to that?”
Incorporating these techniques and strategies can make a significant difference in your cold calls.
By understanding your prospect’s mindset and addressing their concerns upfront, you can establish rapport and increase your chances of making a successful connection.
Remember to always put yourself in your prospect’s shoes and tailor your approach accordingly.
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![6 High-Probability Moments to Send LinkedIn Connection Requests Prior to an Event Events create natural relevance. Conferences, trade shows, user groups, and local meetups give you a reason to connect that does not feel forced. The mistake sellers make is waiting until the event starts or turning the request into a pitch. A better move is connecting days or weeks ahead with a simple acknowledgment of the shared event. Example: Hi Sarah, saw you’re attending the Midwest Manufacturing Summit next month. I’ll also be there and am super excited! I’d love to catch up in person at the event. In the meantime, let’s connect here on LinkedIn. You are aligning with something already on their calendar. When you see them at the event or reach out afterward, your name is no longer unfamiliar. Following an Event After an event, connection requests work best when they reference a real interaction, even a small one. A short conversation, a question during a session, or a brief introduction creates enough context. The request should reflect that moment, not attempt to convert it into a follow-up. Example: Tim, I enjoyed meeting you at the conference last week. Your take on [subject/trend/idea] was intriguing. I look forward to staying connected and to our next conversation. This reinforces continuity and professionalism without pushing the relationship forward prematurely. After a Sales Call Sending a connection request after a sales call is one of the most underused opportunities in prospecting. If the call was answered and productive, the request reinforces credibility and continuity. Example: Thanks again for the conversation today. I appreciated your perspective on how your team is thinking about next quarter. I look forward to our next meeting and sharing some ideas I have with you and your team. If the prospect did not answer, a connection request can still make sense as a light reinforcement, especially early in the relationship. It keeps your name present without escalating pressure. Either way, the request works because the call establishes legitimacy first. After a Meaningful Interaction Not all interactions happen in formal selling environments. Thoughtful exchanges in comment threads, group discussions, or brief conversations in passing all create natural moments to connect. That might mean running into each other at a non-work event, crossing paths at an airport, or chatting briefly in a line somewhere unexpected. Example: Haley, it was a pleasure meeting you on our flight to Atlanta. Thank you for your restaurant recommendations! I look forward to staying connected, What makes this work is that the interaction was real. The request simply continues it. Mutual Connections Shared connections reduce perceived risk when handled with restraint. They signal that you operate in similar professional circles, not that you have permission to pitch. The mistake is overexplaining or implying endorsement. Example: Hi Mark, I noticed that you are connected to my good friend, James, and since you are also [interested in, working in, located in] I thought it might make sense for us to be connected also. A simple acknowledgment is enough. Familiarity does the work. Profile Views Profile views signal awareness, not intent. When someone views your profile after a call, email, or content interaction, a connection request can make sense as a low-pressure acknowledgment. Example: Wendy, thank you for visiting my profile. I had a chance to look at yours, and based on your interests, I thought it might make sense for us to connect. The discipline is resisting the urge to read more into it than is there. Want the exact framework for integrating LinkedIn into a disciplined outreach sequence without pitching, spamming, or wasting time? Buy The LinkedIn Edge by Jeb Blount and Brynne Tillman today. Sales Gravy is the number one sales training organization](https://salesgravy.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/6-Moments-LinkedIn-Connection-Requests-Actually-Work-in-Prospecting-Sales-Gravy-Blog-Featured-Image-768x401.jpg)

