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The key to successfully checking in with your prospect is to ask tie downs that engage your prospect and elicit some kind of response. You must ask a question that is more open-ended and sometimes even a little assumptive.
Tie downs give you a lot of valuable feedback as to where your prospect or client is in terms of the sales process, but they also allow you to control the call, develop a yes momentum, and they give you an idea of how close – or far away – you are from the deal.
Use the following tie downs during your sales presentation and watch your confidence, control, and closing rate double!
20 Tie Downs to Close the Deal
- “Does that make sense?”
- “Do you agree with that?”
- “I’m sure you can see how that would work for you, right?”
- “That’s powerful, isn’t it?”
- “Do we have an agreement?”
- “Does this help?”
- “Can we get this started for you?”
- “Wouldn’t you?”
- “And who wouldn’t want that?”
- “Isn’t that right?”
- “Make sense?”
- “Do you see what I mean?”
- “Understand?”
- “You’re with me on this, right?”
- “I can’t think of a better way, can you?”
- “Right?”
- “Good solution, right?”
- “Agreed?”
- “Sound reasonable?”
- “Got it?”
I think you’d agree that by using tie downs you’ll get a lot more information and direction from your prospects during a close, won’t you? (a shameless tie down, wasn’t it?).
Try any of these and see for yourself how much easier it is to close when you have the valuable feedback tie downs provide you with.
Using Worn Out Tie Downs
You’ve probably heard that nothing identifies you more as a salesperson than using the worn-out greeting, “How are you today?”, right?
Prospects know immediately who is calling and they can’t wait to get you off the phone. You know what else identifies you as a salesperson? Using worn out tie downs.
There are many other tie downs that are so obviously a sales technique that using them makes you sound like a used car salesman.
Besides being old and annoying, these kinds of tie downs are also closed ending statements that get your prospects saying ‘yes’ or ‘sure’ and nothing else. And that’s what you learn about your prospect’s buying motives – nothing.
A Better Way to Use Tie Downs
First of all, remember what your purpose is in using tie downs: to take the pulse of your prospect to see if you’re losing them or if they’re with you, or if they’re bored or engaged, or if they have a question, etc.
In other words, because you’re selling over the phone and don’t have the visual cues you do when you’re in person, you must use some kind of check in statement to see how the conversation is going.
The key to successfully checking in with your prospect is to ask a tie down that engages your prospect and elicits some kind of response. What that means is that you must ask a question that is more open-ended and sometimes even a little assumptive.
It’s easy to change the worn-out tie downs you may be using now.
Here are some examples:
Instead of using, “That’s a nice feature, isn’t it?” you can ask:
“This will save you a lot of time over how you’re doing that now. Just out of curiosity, what are some of the things you might do with that extra time?”
Instead of saying, “Would that make you feel better?” you can ask:
“You’ll save money using our new processor, and how would that go over with the boss?”
Instead of saying, “Are you with me so far?” you can ask:
“You know, I’ve shared a lot of information with you so far, do you mind if I ask what you think about it?”
Instead of saying, “And you’d like that, wouldn’t you?” you can ask:
“Everybody obviously likes to save money (do less work, save time, etc.), how have you been able to save in this area this year?”
Brainstorm and Remember to Listen
Again, the point is to ask questions (tie downs) that encourage your prospects to reveal information that you can then learn something from.
If you’re listening carefully enough (remember to hit your MUTE button), then you’ll be surprised by the buying motives and hints to the sale you’ll hear.
By the way, if you’re a sales manager, this is a great exercise for a meeting. Get all your reps together and make a list of the worn out tie downs they are using now, and then brainstorm new ones that are open ended and that engage people. Your team will not only make more sales, but prospects will enjoy talking to them as well.
One of the biggest drawbacks inside sales reps have to deal with is not being able to see the visual cues of their prospects and clients. Working on the phone requires superior listening skills, and you can develop them much quicker if you get in the habit of using tie downs.
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![6 High-Probability Moments to Send LinkedIn Connection Requests Prior to an Event Events create natural relevance. Conferences, trade shows, user groups, and local meetups give you a reason to connect that does not feel forced. The mistake sellers make is waiting until the event starts or turning the request into a pitch. A better move is connecting days or weeks ahead with a simple acknowledgment of the shared event. Example: Hi Sarah, saw you’re attending the Midwest Manufacturing Summit next month. I’ll also be there and am super excited! I’d love to catch up in person at the event. In the meantime, let’s connect here on LinkedIn. You are aligning with something already on their calendar. When you see them at the event or reach out afterward, your name is no longer unfamiliar. Following an Event After an event, connection requests work best when they reference a real interaction, even a small one. A short conversation, a question during a session, or a brief introduction creates enough context. The request should reflect that moment, not attempt to convert it into a follow-up. Example: Tim, I enjoyed meeting you at the conference last week. Your take on [subject/trend/idea] was intriguing. I look forward to staying connected and to our next conversation. This reinforces continuity and professionalism without pushing the relationship forward prematurely. After a Sales Call Sending a connection request after a sales call is one of the most underused opportunities in prospecting. If the call was answered and productive, the request reinforces credibility and continuity. Example: Thanks again for the conversation today. I appreciated your perspective on how your team is thinking about next quarter. I look forward to our next meeting and sharing some ideas I have with you and your team. If the prospect did not answer, a connection request can still make sense as a light reinforcement, especially early in the relationship. It keeps your name present without escalating pressure. Either way, the request works because the call establishes legitimacy first. After a Meaningful Interaction Not all interactions happen in formal selling environments. Thoughtful exchanges in comment threads, group discussions, or brief conversations in passing all create natural moments to connect. That might mean running into each other at a non-work event, crossing paths at an airport, or chatting briefly in a line somewhere unexpected. Example: Haley, it was a pleasure meeting you on our flight to Atlanta. Thank you for your restaurant recommendations! I look forward to staying connected, What makes this work is that the interaction was real. The request simply continues it. Mutual Connections Shared connections reduce perceived risk when handled with restraint. They signal that you operate in similar professional circles, not that you have permission to pitch. The mistake is overexplaining or implying endorsement. Example: Hi Mark, I noticed that you are connected to my good friend, James, and since you are also [interested in, working in, located in] I thought it might make sense for us to be connected also. A simple acknowledgment is enough. Familiarity does the work. Profile Views Profile views signal awareness, not intent. When someone views your profile after a call, email, or content interaction, a connection request can make sense as a low-pressure acknowledgment. Example: Wendy, thank you for visiting my profile. I had a chance to look at yours, and based on your interests, I thought it might make sense for us to connect. The discipline is resisting the urge to read more into it than is there. Want the exact framework for integrating LinkedIn into a disciplined outreach sequence without pitching, spamming, or wasting time? Buy The LinkedIn Edge by Jeb Blount and Brynne Tillman today. Sales Gravy is the number one sales training organization](https://salesgravy.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/6-Moments-LinkedIn-Connection-Requests-Actually-Work-in-Prospecting-Sales-Gravy-Blog-Featured-Image-768x401.jpg)