The Most Versatile Virtual Selling Tool
Ever since Alexander Graham Bell uttered the first words on the first phone over 140 years ago, “Mr. Watson—come here—I want to see you,” the telephone has been the work horse of virtual selling.
Early in the coronavirus pandemic, the New York Times ran an article about how people were suddenly rediscovering the “humble phone.” In another article the Guardian announce the “return of the phone,” going on to describe how people were rediscovering that “a call can offer real closeness.”
An endless stream of social media posts on LinkedIn extolled salespeople to “make the telephone your new best friend.”
Even the phone-is-dead evangelists seemed to have a change of heart and encouraged salespeople to “phone a customer.”
Aversion to the Phone
Unfortunately, these admonitions to “rediscover the humble telephone,” illustrated just how far we had fallen as a profession. Rather than picking up the phone and talking to people, sales professionals everywhere – even in inside sales reps – had replaced this beautiful, synchronous sales communication tool with asynchronous communication channels.
The sales profession’s aversion to talking with people became particularly dire over the past five years.
So much so, that at least half of Sales Gravy’s training and consulting engagements focused on one thing: Teaching and compelling salespeople to pick up the damn phone.
The problem with getting salespeople to use the phone is so prevalent that powerful and sophisticated, omni-channel sales engagement engines, including Vanilla Soft, HubSpot Sales Pro, Outreach and Sales Loft, have become little more than expensive ways for salespeople to send thousands of automated emails cloaked in the guise of sales activity.
The Workhorse of Virtual Selling
Ever since Alexander Graham Bell uttered the first words on the first phone over 140 years ago, “Mr. Watson—come here—I want to see you,” the telephone has been the work horse of virtual selling. The telephone has always been and will continue to be the most powerful virtual sales tool in your sales kit.
I’ll bet my next book royalty check that there is one attached to you right now. People sleep with their phones, eat with their phones, and are more likely to lose their car keys and wallet than their phone. Though people use phones more for texting, posting selfies and watching cat videos, if you dial a number, in an instant, you can be in a sales conversation.
Your Most Powerful Virtual Selling Tool
So, I’m going to say this one more time slowly for the folks who are still not tracking. There is no other tool in sales that will connect you to people faster, deliver better results, fill your pipe more effectively, and help you cover more ground in less time than the humble phone.
Salespeople who ignore the phone, sub-optimize their productivity and cheat themselves out of cold hard cash. It is the most versatile virtual selling tool. Period.
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![6 High-Probability Moments to Send LinkedIn Connection Requests Prior to an Event Events create natural relevance. Conferences, trade shows, user groups, and local meetups give you a reason to connect that does not feel forced. The mistake sellers make is waiting until the event starts or turning the request into a pitch. A better move is connecting days or weeks ahead with a simple acknowledgment of the shared event. Example: Hi Sarah, saw you’re attending the Midwest Manufacturing Summit next month. I’ll also be there and am super excited! I’d love to catch up in person at the event. In the meantime, let’s connect here on LinkedIn. You are aligning with something already on their calendar. When you see them at the event or reach out afterward, your name is no longer unfamiliar. Following an Event After an event, connection requests work best when they reference a real interaction, even a small one. A short conversation, a question during a session, or a brief introduction creates enough context. The request should reflect that moment, not attempt to convert it into a follow-up. Example: Tim, I enjoyed meeting you at the conference last week. Your take on [subject/trend/idea] was intriguing. I look forward to staying connected and to our next conversation. This reinforces continuity and professionalism without pushing the relationship forward prematurely. After a Sales Call Sending a connection request after a sales call is one of the most underused opportunities in prospecting. If the call was answered and productive, the request reinforces credibility and continuity. Example: Thanks again for the conversation today. I appreciated your perspective on how your team is thinking about next quarter. I look forward to our next meeting and sharing some ideas I have with you and your team. If the prospect did not answer, a connection request can still make sense as a light reinforcement, especially early in the relationship. It keeps your name present without escalating pressure. Either way, the request works because the call establishes legitimacy first. After a Meaningful Interaction Not all interactions happen in formal selling environments. Thoughtful exchanges in comment threads, group discussions, or brief conversations in passing all create natural moments to connect. That might mean running into each other at a non-work event, crossing paths at an airport, or chatting briefly in a line somewhere unexpected. Example: Haley, it was a pleasure meeting you on our flight to Atlanta. Thank you for your restaurant recommendations! I look forward to staying connected, What makes this work is that the interaction was real. The request simply continues it. Mutual Connections Shared connections reduce perceived risk when handled with restraint. They signal that you operate in similar professional circles, not that you have permission to pitch. The mistake is overexplaining or implying endorsement. Example: Hi Mark, I noticed that you are connected to my good friend, James, and since you are also [interested in, working in, located in] I thought it might make sense for us to be connected also. A simple acknowledgment is enough. Familiarity does the work. Profile Views Profile views signal awareness, not intent. When someone views your profile after a call, email, or content interaction, a connection request can make sense as a low-pressure acknowledgment. Example: Wendy, thank you for visiting my profile. I had a chance to look at yours, and based on your interests, I thought it might make sense for us to connect. The discipline is resisting the urge to read more into it than is there. Want the exact framework for integrating LinkedIn into a disciplined outreach sequence without pitching, spamming, or wasting time? Buy The LinkedIn Edge by Jeb Blount and Brynne Tillman today. Sales Gravy is the number one sales training organization](https://salesgravy.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/6-Moments-LinkedIn-Connection-Requests-Actually-Work-in-Prospecting-Sales-Gravy-Blog-Featured-Image-768x401.jpg)

