Simple Steps For Selling To Your Target Prospects With Marketing
You can’t sell without marketing. Understand your target prospects’ perspective, craft your message, and get out there!
Understanding The Value Your Prospect Sees
The main key to marketing effectively is understanding your value – the value your prospect sees.
People don’t buy things they don’t need; especially these days. You have to speak to their pain, their need. So, try this quick exercise.
What Do You Sell?
Write down the following:
What do you sell? What’s the product or service?
Now, why would I buy it? What problem does it help me solve or avoid? Why would I want it or need it?
Keep asking yourself ‘so what?’ And keep answering that question. This will help you get down to the root of value.
Craft Your Message
Once you have this information you can start crafting your message. Your message must speak to the value or once again, no one will buy your product/service.
Marketing messages should be short, concise, and to the point.
Say it and get out of the way.
One mistake small business owners make is saying way too much. The message gets lost.
So, practice the KISS method here (Keep It Simple Stupid).
Get The Message Out
The next step is to get the message out. You want your message to be where your prospects are.
Once you know the value you can identify to whom it is most valuable. Now that you know who, ask yourself ‘where are they?’
I am often asked to advertise in various periodicals and programs.
My first question is always— who is reading it? Who is receiving it?
If the answer isn’t small business owners and business leaders, I pass.
You Don’t Need To Be Everywhere
Don’t get caught up in the idea that you have to be everywhere— you don’t! You need to be in the right places.
You have a great marketing avenue with social media.
Ask yourself where your prospects hang out and communicate online; what are they reading, commenting on, sharing?
Then go there, with your message, consistently.
You Can’t Be Selling 7 Times
Conventional wisdom says you have to be in front of your prospects at least 7 times in order to make an impression.
However, you can’t be SELLING 7 times.
So, get creative on how you show up.
You want them to get used to you, to see you as an expert in your field and therefore want to be engaged with you.
You Can’t Sell If You Aren’t Marketing
Earlier I said you have to be consistent. You can’t do one thing and wait for it to work.
Marketing is about gaining exposure and credibility.
You want to be top of mind when someone is ready to make a buying decision.
There’s no question that it’s work. It just doesn’t have to be hard work!
Follow the steps outlined here and then build on them. Get yourself out there.
Remember—you can’t sell if you aren’t marketing.
Well, you can but it’s a heck of a lot harder! And less fruitful.
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![6 High-Probability Moments to Send LinkedIn Connection Requests Prior to an Event Events create natural relevance. Conferences, trade shows, user groups, and local meetups give you a reason to connect that does not feel forced. The mistake sellers make is waiting until the event starts or turning the request into a pitch. A better move is connecting days or weeks ahead with a simple acknowledgment of the shared event. Example: Hi Sarah, saw you’re attending the Midwest Manufacturing Summit next month. I’ll also be there and am super excited! I’d love to catch up in person at the event. In the meantime, let’s connect here on LinkedIn. You are aligning with something already on their calendar. When you see them at the event or reach out afterward, your name is no longer unfamiliar. Following an Event After an event, connection requests work best when they reference a real interaction, even a small one. A short conversation, a question during a session, or a brief introduction creates enough context. The request should reflect that moment, not attempt to convert it into a follow-up. Example: Tim, I enjoyed meeting you at the conference last week. Your take on [subject/trend/idea] was intriguing. I look forward to staying connected and to our next conversation. This reinforces continuity and professionalism without pushing the relationship forward prematurely. After a Sales Call Sending a connection request after a sales call is one of the most underused opportunities in prospecting. If the call was answered and productive, the request reinforces credibility and continuity. Example: Thanks again for the conversation today. I appreciated your perspective on how your team is thinking about next quarter. I look forward to our next meeting and sharing some ideas I have with you and your team. If the prospect did not answer, a connection request can still make sense as a light reinforcement, especially early in the relationship. It keeps your name present without escalating pressure. Either way, the request works because the call establishes legitimacy first. After a Meaningful Interaction Not all interactions happen in formal selling environments. Thoughtful exchanges in comment threads, group discussions, or brief conversations in passing all create natural moments to connect. That might mean running into each other at a non-work event, crossing paths at an airport, or chatting briefly in a line somewhere unexpected. Example: Haley, it was a pleasure meeting you on our flight to Atlanta. Thank you for your restaurant recommendations! I look forward to staying connected, What makes this work is that the interaction was real. The request simply continues it. Mutual Connections Shared connections reduce perceived risk when handled with restraint. They signal that you operate in similar professional circles, not that you have permission to pitch. The mistake is overexplaining or implying endorsement. Example: Hi Mark, I noticed that you are connected to my good friend, James, and since you are also [interested in, working in, located in] I thought it might make sense for us to be connected also. A simple acknowledgment is enough. Familiarity does the work. Profile Views Profile views signal awareness, not intent. When someone views your profile after a call, email, or content interaction, a connection request can make sense as a low-pressure acknowledgment. Example: Wendy, thank you for visiting my profile. I had a chance to look at yours, and based on your interests, I thought it might make sense for us to connect. The discipline is resisting the urge to read more into it than is there. Want the exact framework for integrating LinkedIn into a disciplined outreach sequence without pitching, spamming, or wasting time? Buy The LinkedIn Edge by Jeb Blount and Brynne Tillman today. Sales Gravy is the number one sales training organization](https://salesgravy.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/6-Moments-LinkedIn-Connection-Requests-Actually-Work-in-Prospecting-Sales-Gravy-Blog-Featured-Image-768x401.jpg)
