Most salespeople repeatedly find themselves navigating waves of extreme highs and lows. During their lowest points, they have to decide whether the metaphorical glass is half-full or half-empty.
We’re salespeople. That means that most of us repeatedly find ourselves navigating waves of extreme highs and lows.
During our lowest points, we have to decide whether the metaphorical glass is half-full or half-empty.
Are we just about to surface, or, already drowning?
We’re salespeople. Positive thinking is crucial. We ignite our optimism in dark times. We don’t quit. We won’t yield to negativity.
Whether it comes from our DNA, our sales training, and/or our life lessons, we choose to see the glass half-full.
That’s one of the characteristics that fuels our tenacity and boosts our energy, enabling us to push through external and internal barriers to success.
Closing business is even sweeter when we turn blockers into supporters and when we out-sell the competition.
Even if the deal is lost, we keep in touch and stay vigilant for the next opportunity.
We’re salespeople. We tap into our glass half-full mindsets most ardently when things like quota, awards, and bonuses are on the line.
Our optimism feeds our tenacity. It’s how we survive and thrive in our profession.
However, I believe we should admit that the glass IS half-empty sometimes. Why suppress our determination and optimism?
We can get so focused on hanging on, and hanging in, that we miss the signs that it’s time to let go.
We can be so determined and optimistic that we summarily reject our colleagues’ perspectives, objections, or concerns.
We can persevere and close business that becomes “bad” business, such as unprofitable, difficult to implement, litigious, etc.
We can work so hard to not be “quitters” that we hurt our health or career.
So, how do we know when to accept that it’s just not worth expending the energy to convince ourselves, or others, to stay positive and stay the course? In fact, it is time to:
- hear “no” versus “not now.”
- listen to our colleagues despite their negativity.
- say “enough.”
One way is to pay attention to how much emotional and physical toll it’s taking for us to keep thinking positively about a sales or work situation.
If we know ourselves and recognize our patterns, we’ll know when we’re trying harder and harder, and the glass is just getting emptier.
We’re salespeople. That’s the time to focus on another glass that’s half-full.


![6 High-Probability Moments to Send LinkedIn Connection Requests Prior to an Event Events create natural relevance. Conferences, trade shows, user groups, and local meetups give you a reason to connect that does not feel forced. The mistake sellers make is waiting until the event starts or turning the request into a pitch. A better move is connecting days or weeks ahead with a simple acknowledgment of the shared event. Example: Hi Sarah, saw you’re attending the Midwest Manufacturing Summit next month. I’ll also be there and am super excited! I’d love to catch up in person at the event. In the meantime, let’s connect here on LinkedIn. You are aligning with something already on their calendar. When you see them at the event or reach out afterward, your name is no longer unfamiliar. Following an Event After an event, connection requests work best when they reference a real interaction, even a small one. A short conversation, a question during a session, or a brief introduction creates enough context. The request should reflect that moment, not attempt to convert it into a follow-up. Example: Tim, I enjoyed meeting you at the conference last week. Your take on [subject/trend/idea] was intriguing. I look forward to staying connected and to our next conversation. This reinforces continuity and professionalism without pushing the relationship forward prematurely. After a Sales Call Sending a connection request after a sales call is one of the most underused opportunities in prospecting. If the call was answered and productive, the request reinforces credibility and continuity. Example: Thanks again for the conversation today. I appreciated your perspective on how your team is thinking about next quarter. I look forward to our next meeting and sharing some ideas I have with you and your team. If the prospect did not answer, a connection request can still make sense as a light reinforcement, especially early in the relationship. It keeps your name present without escalating pressure. Either way, the request works because the call establishes legitimacy first. After a Meaningful Interaction Not all interactions happen in formal selling environments. Thoughtful exchanges in comment threads, group discussions, or brief conversations in passing all create natural moments to connect. That might mean running into each other at a non-work event, crossing paths at an airport, or chatting briefly in a line somewhere unexpected. Example: Haley, it was a pleasure meeting you on our flight to Atlanta. Thank you for your restaurant recommendations! I look forward to staying connected, What makes this work is that the interaction was real. The request simply continues it. Mutual Connections Shared connections reduce perceived risk when handled with restraint. They signal that you operate in similar professional circles, not that you have permission to pitch. The mistake is overexplaining or implying endorsement. Example: Hi Mark, I noticed that you are connected to my good friend, James, and since you are also [interested in, working in, located in] I thought it might make sense for us to be connected also. A simple acknowledgment is enough. Familiarity does the work. Profile Views Profile views signal awareness, not intent. When someone views your profile after a call, email, or content interaction, a connection request can make sense as a low-pressure acknowledgment. Example: Wendy, thank you for visiting my profile. I had a chance to look at yours, and based on your interests, I thought it might make sense for us to connect. The discipline is resisting the urge to read more into it than is there. Want the exact framework for integrating LinkedIn into a disciplined outreach sequence without pitching, spamming, or wasting time? Buy The LinkedIn Edge by Jeb Blount and Brynne Tillman today. Sales Gravy is the number one sales training organization](https://salesgravy.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/6-Moments-LinkedIn-Connection-Requests-Actually-Work-in-Prospecting-Sales-Gravy-Blog-Featured-Image-768x401.jpg)
