These 7 tips will help you maximize your sales, generate better leads, and create long lasting customer relationships.
Cold calling potential prospects can be frustrating and hard. Whether you are doing it in person or on the phone, it is your job to warm up a potential customer.
This process can be exceedingly difficult, especially if you’re not used to it.
I’ve called many prospects and I’m going to show you how to make this process much easier.
Cold Calling Tips To Help Improve Your Closing Rate
Follow these cold calling tips to help you secure more leads and customers.
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Focus All of Your Questions On Your Client, Not Yourself
In your initial contact with the prospect, focus all your attention and your questions on the prospect. Don’t talk about who you are and your questions on the prospect. Don’t talk about who you are and what you do, or about your company. Remember, it is about them, not about you. Client-centered selling is professional selling. You are only selling professionally when you are talking to your client about his or her wants and needs.
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Plan Your Questions In Advance: More Information = More Sales
In cold calling, the more information that you can elicit, the easier it will be for you to qualify the prospect and then go on to make a sale. This is where questioning is so important. Your questions should be thought out carefully in advance, and organized in a logical sequence, from the most general to the most specific.
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Cold Calling Scripts: To Follow Or Not To Follow?
Once you have a positive response from a prospect to your opening question, you then ask him questions about his business, his market, his budget, and so on. Very often, people will give you all of this information in exchange for the benefit that you promised in your opening question. To get the answers to these problems from your prospect, ask questions such as the ones in these cold calling scripts below:
“If you could magically eliminate three of your biggest problems in your business or market, what would they be?”
“If you could create the ideal situation for your business, what would you change?”
“I’d like to schedule a meeting with you in person to discuss your business needs and how my product will benefit you. How does Wednesday at 2PM sound?”Always remember, that cold calling and sales in general should be very personal. You should focus on your customers needs as an individual on a case by case business. This is how you build relationships with you customers and have long sales relationships to come. Using cold calling scripts can make the call feel less personal and this is something you want to avoid.
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In Person: Less Is More
When you are cold calling or calling on a prospect for the first time, a strategy is for you to “go in naked.”
What this means is that, at the most, you carry a simple folder rather than a briefcase full of brochures or samples. If the prospect is interested and wants a presentation and more information, you can always go back to your car to get what you need and bring it in. But when you go in without a briefcase you lower the stress of initial sales resistance and cause the prospect to relax and open up to you sooner. -
Don’t Attempt To Sell On Your First Cold Call
In your first call, you should never attempt to sell. Focus on information gathering. Unless you are selling something inexpensive that requires little thought, you want to interview the prospecting ask questions. Take notes and tell them you will come back to them. Focus on building the relationship and coming across as friendly, genial and nonthreatening.
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Keep Your Prospect Relaxed
The longer that your prospect remains relaxed, and the more he opens up to you, the more likely it is you will make the sale in the long run. If you are cold calling on the phone, read my previous blog about my “100 Calls Technique” that I like to use. It will help you to relax and be much more personable on every one of your sales calls.
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Find Out Exactly What Benefit Will Cause Your Customer To Buy From You
With each customer, there is a key benefit that will trigger buying desire and lead the customer to purchase your product or service. At the same time, there is a key fear or doubt that will hold the customer back from buying. Your initial job in your first cold call with your prospect, and the key to qualifying, is to find out exactly what benefit will cause this customer to buy from you, and exactly what fear or doubt might hold this customer back from buying from you.
BONUS TIP: Don’t Be Afraid To Ask For More
Don’t be afraid to ask. “Ask” is the magic word for sales success.
You can even say: “What we have found is that there is always a key benefit or major reason that a person would purchase our product or service. What might it be for you?”
Be open, honest, and genuine, and ask out of curiosity. You will be amazed at the answers you’ll hear.
Prospects will offer give you all the information that you need to make a sale. The key for you is to ask.

![6 High-Probability Moments to Send LinkedIn Connection Requests Prior to an Event Events create natural relevance. Conferences, trade shows, user groups, and local meetups give you a reason to connect that does not feel forced. The mistake sellers make is waiting until the event starts or turning the request into a pitch. A better move is connecting days or weeks ahead with a simple acknowledgment of the shared event. Example: Hi Sarah, saw you’re attending the Midwest Manufacturing Summit next month. I’ll also be there and am super excited! I’d love to catch up in person at the event. In the meantime, let’s connect here on LinkedIn. You are aligning with something already on their calendar. When you see them at the event or reach out afterward, your name is no longer unfamiliar. Following an Event After an event, connection requests work best when they reference a real interaction, even a small one. A short conversation, a question during a session, or a brief introduction creates enough context. The request should reflect that moment, not attempt to convert it into a follow-up. Example: Tim, I enjoyed meeting you at the conference last week. Your take on [subject/trend/idea] was intriguing. I look forward to staying connected and to our next conversation. This reinforces continuity and professionalism without pushing the relationship forward prematurely. After a Sales Call Sending a connection request after a sales call is one of the most underused opportunities in prospecting. If the call was answered and productive, the request reinforces credibility and continuity. Example: Thanks again for the conversation today. I appreciated your perspective on how your team is thinking about next quarter. I look forward to our next meeting and sharing some ideas I have with you and your team. If the prospect did not answer, a connection request can still make sense as a light reinforcement, especially early in the relationship. It keeps your name present without escalating pressure. Either way, the request works because the call establishes legitimacy first. After a Meaningful Interaction Not all interactions happen in formal selling environments. Thoughtful exchanges in comment threads, group discussions, or brief conversations in passing all create natural moments to connect. That might mean running into each other at a non-work event, crossing paths at an airport, or chatting briefly in a line somewhere unexpected. Example: Haley, it was a pleasure meeting you on our flight to Atlanta. Thank you for your restaurant recommendations! I look forward to staying connected, What makes this work is that the interaction was real. The request simply continues it. Mutual Connections Shared connections reduce perceived risk when handled with restraint. They signal that you operate in similar professional circles, not that you have permission to pitch. The mistake is overexplaining or implying endorsement. Example: Hi Mark, I noticed that you are connected to my good friend, James, and since you are also [interested in, working in, located in] I thought it might make sense for us to be connected also. A simple acknowledgment is enough. Familiarity does the work. Profile Views Profile views signal awareness, not intent. When someone views your profile after a call, email, or content interaction, a connection request can make sense as a low-pressure acknowledgment. Example: Wendy, thank you for visiting my profile. I had a chance to look at yours, and based on your interests, I thought it might make sense for us to connect. The discipline is resisting the urge to read more into it than is there. Want the exact framework for integrating LinkedIn into a disciplined outreach sequence without pitching, spamming, or wasting time? Buy The LinkedIn Edge by Jeb Blount and Brynne Tillman today. Sales Gravy is the number one sales training organization](https://salesgravy.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/6-Moments-LinkedIn-Connection-Requests-Actually-Work-in-Prospecting-Sales-Gravy-Blog-Featured-Image-768x401.jpg)

