Just like salespeople create a daily action plan for sales, salespeople should plan to prospect. Set the goal – what outcome is desired from prospecting? Be sure the goal is “SMART” – Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and Time-based.
There is one word in sales that seems to conjure up dread among sales people: the “P” word. Prospecting.
While once commonplace and often highly anticipated by outgoing, friendly sales people, prospecting is a lost art. Yet, every salesperson that does not prospect is stopping sales. Every manager who doesn’t proactively teach sales people how to prospect is stopping their forward progress.
In the early days, sales managers would take five or six sales people into the community. They would go to a local donut shop, talk to the customers and leave, knowing that everyone there knew who they were, what they did and why they should keep their contact information. Then they went next door. It may sound old-fashioned in today’s multi-media world. But personal communication builds relationships and is most effective as a first step.
Why Prospect?
In general, there are five potential results that can come from effective prospecting:
- Positively communicating with the community.
- An immediate appointment or sale.
- Referrals to active prospects.
- Contacts for a file of future prospects.
- A prospect locator or bird dog.
Plan to Prospect
Just like salespeople create a daily action plan for sales, salespeople should plan to prospect. Set the goal – what outcome is desired from prospecting? Be sure the goal is “SMART” – Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and Time-based.
Consider this as a goal– if a salesperson makes five new contacts and gives out five business cards a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year, he or she will make nearly 2,000 new contacts. It’s simple math:
5 contacts a day x 365 days a year = 1,825 new contacts
(or if you prospect only 5 days a week, then 1,300 new contacts)
Let’s evaluate this against our SMART goal criteria.
- Is making five new contacts a day a specific goal? Yes.
- Is this a measurable goal? Yes.
- Is securing five new contacts daily attainable? Yes.
- Is the goal realistic? Yes.
- Is it time-based? Yes.
- Does it make sense?
The more contacts you make and business cards you give out, the more people will know you, remember you and eventually, call you.
One there is clarity about a starting point and the goal; create a strategy or strategies that identify how to achieve the goals. These may include:
- Improving the skills that maybe weak.
- Making a time commitment to prospect a certain amount of time each week – two hours? Four hours? More? Book time in advance on the calendar and be disciplined in keeping prospecting “appointments.”
- Decide how to quality a prospect. Look at the outcome desired from prospecting and develop a list of criteria that defines a positive, acceptable result.
- Schedule time for follow-up/prospecting. Sales people often lose opportunities because they neglect to take the next steps with new contacts. Put time in on calendar for follow-up so new leads don’t grow stale. Even keeping to a schedule, you can never do enough follow up. Prospecting doesn’t require an enormous amount of time and can even be worked in to everyday activities. Every time a salesperson goes out, he or she should give out business cards.
Think about simple ways to extend awareness. For example, carry an inexpensive, branded pen (they can be bought for less than $0.30 each online) and leave it in the check sleeve presented by the waitress when you dine out. That pen will pass through multiple people over its lifetime, all of whom will read the information.
- Know what to say. Identify the value statements that will spark interest or action. Make notes, but practice until the presentation is natural, not rehearsed.
- Develop a list of questions that might be asked and think about how to answer them. Be prepared.
- Never ask a question unless you know what the answer is. For example, how do most people answer this question: “Is this a good time to talk?” Most will say “No.” So, don’t ask! Ask questions you know will start a conversation; avoid those that can be answered with a “yes” or “no.”
- Invest the time to track and measure. Assessing success, refining and improving strategies requires measurement.
Identify Potential Sources
Successful prospectors know that, while there are many approaches, the best methods are in person, telephone, written communication, e-mail or instant messaging. Personal prospecting should be done every waking minute of the day. Wherever the salesperson goes, he or she should always be looking for a good prospect. Here’s a brief list of potential ways to find prospects:
- Never forget your existing clients. There is as much or even more business to be gained from current clients as there is from prospecting. Ask clients for referrals to friends, family and colleagues. At the same time, find out if they have a need for a new vehicle as well. Continuously follow up with clients to build and keep the relationship, and to get a referral.
- Virtually every place a salesperson goes is a good place to prospect:
- Social settings: picnics, parties, family gatherings, political events.
- Events: sports, holidays, graduations, reunions.
- Meetings and activities: civic groups, religious organizations, Scouts, health clubs.
- Neighborhood: stores, coffee shops, malls, airports – anywhere you can meet people
- Your relationships. Think about the people you know and see or talk to regularly. Each of them knows at least one person, who knows one person, etc. If you start the ball rolling by asking five friends to ask five friends, to ask five friends, and so on, the prospecting tree will only continue to grow.
The list is endless. Most likely the people you encounter in these places will share an interest, which provides a common ground for conversation. As you talk, get to know more about their interests, their hot buttons and other information that you can relate to your product or service. This gives you an ability to offer them something they are interested in.
Choose the right words to capture a prospect’s interest instead of turning them off. For example, an effective introductory question at a car dealership is, “What type of car are you driving?” Without fail, this will provide an answer and start a conversation.
Listen. Everyone likes to tell stories about cars. Get them talking. By asking what vehicle they own, you might find someone who has a five-year old car and is ready to trade up. Or someone may answer: “I drive a lemon that’s in the shop for the umpteenth time.” Soon, you give them your business card, offer to introduce them to your service department, show them what’s new, and get an opportunity to deliver a vehicle or ask for a referral.
Tell people what you do in broad terms. “I am in the transportation business.” Even if you work for a single-point dealership, you can offer any type of transportation because every dealership sells pre-owned cars, and every dealer knows other dealers they can deal with. Offer to help with any transportation need, and then, be ready to do so.
Always get the referral. Tell prospects to keep you in mind for friends, colleagues, or family members. If each of 10 people you talk to tell 10 more about your conversation, who then tell 10 more and so on, the potential is mind-boggling. On average, for every one person you engage, you have the potential to influence close to 250 individuals.
Turn incoming phone calls into prospecting opportunities; be sure to:
- Give your name
- Get their name
- Create a sense of urgency
- Make the appointment
If you can’t get the appointment, then go deeper and ask for prospects – family, friends, and co-workers. Always have something to offer – find their hot button and talk about how you and your products can meet their needs.
Prospecting is an important part of any successful sales strategy. With careful planning, the “P” word will no longer evoke dread, but deliver results. Understand the starting point, develop a plan, and make a commitment of time devoted to achieving the goal. There is no better time to revive the lost art of prospecting. It will keep sales people busy with leads and referrals all year long.


![6 High-Probability Moments to Send LinkedIn Connection Requests Prior to an Event Events create natural relevance. Conferences, trade shows, user groups, and local meetups give you a reason to connect that does not feel forced. The mistake sellers make is waiting until the event starts or turning the request into a pitch. A better move is connecting days or weeks ahead with a simple acknowledgment of the shared event. Example: Hi Sarah, saw you’re attending the Midwest Manufacturing Summit next month. I’ll also be there and am super excited! I’d love to catch up in person at the event. In the meantime, let’s connect here on LinkedIn. You are aligning with something already on their calendar. When you see them at the event or reach out afterward, your name is no longer unfamiliar. Following an Event After an event, connection requests work best when they reference a real interaction, even a small one. A short conversation, a question during a session, or a brief introduction creates enough context. The request should reflect that moment, not attempt to convert it into a follow-up. Example: Tim, I enjoyed meeting you at the conference last week. Your take on [subject/trend/idea] was intriguing. I look forward to staying connected and to our next conversation. This reinforces continuity and professionalism without pushing the relationship forward prematurely. After a Sales Call Sending a connection request after a sales call is one of the most underused opportunities in prospecting. If the call was answered and productive, the request reinforces credibility and continuity. Example: Thanks again for the conversation today. I appreciated your perspective on how your team is thinking about next quarter. I look forward to our next meeting and sharing some ideas I have with you and your team. If the prospect did not answer, a connection request can still make sense as a light reinforcement, especially early in the relationship. It keeps your name present without escalating pressure. Either way, the request works because the call establishes legitimacy first. After a Meaningful Interaction Not all interactions happen in formal selling environments. Thoughtful exchanges in comment threads, group discussions, or brief conversations in passing all create natural moments to connect. That might mean running into each other at a non-work event, crossing paths at an airport, or chatting briefly in a line somewhere unexpected. Example: Haley, it was a pleasure meeting you on our flight to Atlanta. Thank you for your restaurant recommendations! I look forward to staying connected, What makes this work is that the interaction was real. The request simply continues it. Mutual Connections Shared connections reduce perceived risk when handled with restraint. They signal that you operate in similar professional circles, not that you have permission to pitch. The mistake is overexplaining or implying endorsement. Example: Hi Mark, I noticed that you are connected to my good friend, James, and since you are also [interested in, working in, located in] I thought it might make sense for us to be connected also. A simple acknowledgment is enough. Familiarity does the work. Profile Views Profile views signal awareness, not intent. When someone views your profile after a call, email, or content interaction, a connection request can make sense as a low-pressure acknowledgment. Example: Wendy, thank you for visiting my profile. I had a chance to look at yours, and based on your interests, I thought it might make sense for us to connect. The discipline is resisting the urge to read more into it than is there. Want the exact framework for integrating LinkedIn into a disciplined outreach sequence without pitching, spamming, or wasting time? Buy The LinkedIn Edge by Jeb Blount and Brynne Tillman today. Sales Gravy is the number one sales training organization](https://salesgravy.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/6-Moments-LinkedIn-Connection-Requests-Actually-Work-in-Prospecting-Sales-Gravy-Blog-Featured-Image-768x401.jpg)
