Written By: Kayla Kilch
Leaders know they need to give feedback. But delivering it in a way that drives improvement? That’s the challenge.
Too often, feedback is vague, demotivating, or sugarcoated. Without clear, actionable feedback, reps end up repeating mistakes or, worse, lose confidence in their ability to improve.
Great feedback isn’t about pointing out every flaw. It’s about strategically guiding your team to perform better. Done right, it builds confidence, sharpens skills, and strengthens trust in you as a leader.
How many times have you been told to “get better” without knowing how? “Improve your calls” isn’t enough.
Reps need specifics. Example: “On your last call, you jumped into the pitch too early. You didn’t understand their challenges. Next time, ask two more discovery questions first.”
Vague feedback leaves reps guessing. Precision in feedback gives them a clear path to success.
Focus on Behaviors, Not Personality
Feedback should address actions, not traits. Telling someone, “You’re not confident enough” feels like a personal attack.
Instead, focus on the behavior: “Your tone wavered when handling that objection. Pause before responding to project confidence.”
This approach gives reps a clear way to improve, without hurting their morale. Confidence drives performance.
If all you do is criticize, reps will tune you out. If you only highlight weaknesses, they’ll stop trying.
Recognize strengths, too. Example: “Your energy is great—prospects respond well to it. But tighten your value proposition so you don’t lose them halfway through.”
Balancing both keeps reps motivated and helps them build on what works.
Make Feedback Timely
Delayed feedback loses its punch. The best time to coach is immediately after a call, when the details are fresh.
A quick, five-minute debrief is more valuable than a long, rambling session days later. Timely feedback allows for immediate course correction and clear connections to performance.
Feedback isn’t a one-time conversation. Keep listening to their calls. Offer more guidance. Recognize improvements.
Set expectations: “Next week, focus on asking three discovery questions before pitching. We’ll review your calls on Friday.”
Reinforcement ensures feedback sticks. Without follow-up, even the best advice is forgotten.
Great coaching is ongoing.
When Lisa started in sales, she struggled to close deals. Her manager was “supportive” but gave vague feedback: “You’re doing great. Keep going!”
Lisa appreciated the encouragement, but had no clue what to fix. Frustrated, she went to a senior rep for help.
He gave her blunt, specific feedback: “You’re rushing the close. You skipped the commitment question. Next call, slow down and confirm they’re ready to move forward.”
Within weeks, Lisa’s close rate shot up. The difference? Actionable feedback, not empty encouragement.
James was a top performer. His numbers started slipping, but his manager avoided tough conversations. He assumed James knew what to do.
When Sam, a sales trainer, came in, he noticed James was coasting. He wasn’t adapting. Sam listened to his calls and pinpointed the problem.
He pulled James aside: “You’re leaning on old frameworks. Your prospects don’t trust you anymore. Get back to the basics—build rapport, ask deeper discovery questions, and earn their engagement.”
The tough love worked. A month later, James was back on top. Even veterans need feedback. Stop coaching, and they stop improving. No one is too experienced for feedback.
Sales reps don’t need generic advice. They need actionable feedback to close more deals. One of the most effective frameworks for delivering feedback to your sellers is the SBI method. Use this to clearly and specifically describe what happened:
SITUATION – When and where did the behavior happen? “Yesterday afternoon during the customer demo with Mr. Jenkins…”
BEHAVIOR – What did the rep say or do? “…you arrived five minutes late and didn’t have the walk-around checklist ready.”
IMPACT – What was the result or consequence? “That made the customer feel like we weren’t fully prepared, and it caused the handoff to service to get delayed.”
When you give clear, timely, and balanced feedback, you build a culture where your team grows and improves. You earn their trust. And they win more deals.
Your job as a leader isn’t to be nice. It’s to make your team better. Cut the fluff. Be direct. Reinforce what works. Coach out what doesn’t work. Want a team that crushes their targets? Start coaching like it.
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