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ales Gravy, the number one sales training company, teaches salespeople how a positive sales attitude and energy transforms prospecting calls, virtual meetings, and in-person conversations into closed deals.

Your Attitude Walks Into the Room Before You Do (Money Monday)

Summary Your attitude arrives before you do in every sales conversation. Before buyers process what you're saying, they're already reacting to your energy, tone, and presence — on the phone, on Zoom, and in person. A simple 30-second reset before…

Most sales managers confuse empathy with sympathy and pay for it in team performance. In this episode of the number on sales training podcast, Jeb Blount breaks down the real difference, why listening first is the most powerful coaching move you have, and how to hold the line on expectations while still making your reps feel heard.

How to Coach Your Sales Team with Empathy without Losing Your Edge (Ask Jeb)

Summary: Most sales managers confuse empathy with sympathy and pay for it in team performance. Jeb Blount breaks down the real difference, why listening first is the most powerful coaching move you have, and how to hold the line on…

Jeb Blount, CEO of Sales Gravy, the number one sales training company, explains why people buy based on emotion and how salespeople can close more deals by aligning with the way buyers think.

People Buy for Their Reasons, Not Yours (Money Monday)

Summary: Why people buy has far less to do with logic than most salespeople think. Buyers make decisions driven by emotion first, then justify those choices with rational explanations after the fact. To close more deals, you have to learn…

Sales Gravy, the number one sales training company in the world, shares expert insight on relaxed assertive confidence with Jeb Blount and guest Vera Stewart on the Sales Gravy Podcast

The Power of Relaxed Assertive Confidence

Summary: In sales, relaxed assertive confidence is the calm, settled belief that when you ask, the answer will be yes. It is one of the most reliable traits separating top-performing salespeople from those who stall out. It is not arrogance,…

Learn how to read high-ticket prospects’ unspoken signals and speak their language to close more deals in complex sales. Read the full blog by Jeb Blount Jr, Sales Gravy Sales Trainer, the number one sales training company.

How to Know What High Ticket Sales Prospects Actually Want

Morgan Keim, founder of Ocean Ridge Capital, raised over $400 million in venture capital before he turned 35. One of his companies alone pulled in over $300 million pre-revenue—convincing pension funds and VCs to invest hundreds of millions in a…

Brad Beeler, author of Tell Me Everything and retired Secret Service agent who has conducted more criminal polygraphs than anyone in the agency's history, joins Jeb Blount Jr. on the Sales Gravy Podcast, the number one sales training podcast

What a Secret Service Interrogator Can Teach You About Building Trust in Sales

Brad Beeler, author of Tell Me Everything and retired Secret Service agent who has conducted more criminal polygraphs than anyone in the agency's history, was clearing a house on a search warrant when he came across two dogs: a pitbull…

What Is Sales Main Character Syndrome? Sales main character syndrome is when you position yourself as the hero instead of your prospect. You see it everywhere: On the phone: You launch into a five-minute pitch about your company history before asking a single question. In email: You send giant blocks of text about features without mentioning their actual problems. On LinkedIn: Your connect request immediately hits them with "Here's my product, here's my calendar link, let's meet." No matter the channel, it all leads back to the same place: your product, your company, your agenda. Prospects don't care about your product yet. They care about their problems, their goals, and what’s at stake in their world. When you make it all about you, you trigger resistance. Buyers feel sold to instead of collaborated with. And that leads to ghosting, objections, and stalled deals. Nobody wants to sit through a feature dump. People need relevance. They want to feel heard and know you actually get them. Listen to the full episode of Jeb Blount's Sales Gravy Podcast, the number one sales training podcast

Main Character Syndrome: Why Prospects Tune You Out (Money Monday)

You're at a networking event and someone corners you. For the next ten minutes, they talk nonstop about their vacation, their dog, their new car. You're not having a conversation. You're trapped in their monologue. You're annoyed. You tune out.…

Here's a question I get asked all the time: What's the single biggest misconception holding salespeople back? That question came from a room full of college students at BYU-Idaho, ages 19 to 24, all exploring sales careers. And my answer is the same whether you're just starting out or you've been in the game for decades. The biggest lie about selling is this: Good salespeople have the gift of gab. You know the stereotype. The smooth talker. The fast-talking closer. The person who can talk their way into or out of anything. We've all seen it in movies, TV shows, and plays like Death of a Salesman. It's been around for a century, and it's completely wrong. The Truth Top Performers Know Here's what the best salespeople actually do: They listen. The greatest salespeople aren't the best talkers. They're the best listeners. They're individuals who know how to ask the right questions and know how to ask questions in a way that create these aha moments for prospects and customers. They understand something fundamental that average performers miss: Closing happens in the discovery process, not at some magical point where you lay the hammer down and ask for a sale. Think about that for a second. The deal isn't won when you deliver your polished presentation. It's not won when you overcome the final objection. It's won in those early conversations when you're asking questions, uncovering pain, and building relationships. Why the Stereotype Persists The negative stereotype of salespeople has been pervasive in society for generations. Part of it's because no one really likes to be sold. And there are salespeople who are bad. They talk at people instead of actually taking the time to listen. But here's the reality: Lots of professions have negative stereotypes. Lawyers. Politicians. Salespeople aren't the worst of them. And here's the good side of that negative stereotype: Nobody wants to be in sales. So if you're in sales, you're making a whole lot more money than anybody else. That's a good thing. The people who look at the profession of selling and say "I could never do that" or "I could never interrupt people or take that type of rejection" are the same people who will never experience the income, freedom, and impact that comes with being great at sales. The Power of Questions When you shift your mindset from talking to listening, everything changes. Instead of thinking about what you're going to say next, you're focused on what your prospect is telling you. You're asking questions like: What's driving this decision right now? What happens if you don't solve this problem? Who else is involved in this decision? What does success look like for you? These aren't manipulative tricks. They're genuine attempts to understand your prospect's world, their challenges, and their goals. And when you do that well, you create trust. You build relationships. You position yourself as a partner, not a vendor. The discovery questions you ask matter more than any pitch you could ever deliver. Handling objections starts with asking the right questions early in the process. Who's Really in Control Here's the truth: The person in control of the conversation is rarely the talker. In fact, it's almost always the listener. If you want to move deals, stop performing and start discovering. Build your calls around three things: smart opening questions, deep follow-ups, and crisp advances to the next step. You'll gain insights, not just air time. And insights are what close deals. Success in sales isn't about being the loudest voice in the room. It's about being the most curious, the most engaged, and the most intentional about moving the sale forward. What You Need to Unlearn Right Now If you've been operating under the assumption that you need to be a great talker to succeed in sales, unlearn that immediately. Replace it with this truth: You need to be a great asker and an even better listener. Your job isn't to convince people. Your job is to help people convince themselves by asking questions that lead them to their own conclusions. When prospects discover the solution themselves through your questioning, they own it. They believe it. And they buy. That's the relationship you build through asking questions. That matters the most. The Bottom Line Stop trying to out-talk your prospects. Stop preparing 47-slide presentations. Stop thinking that your job is to educate and inform. Your job is to discover. To listen. To understand. To ask the questions that help your prospects see clearly what they need to do next. The best salespeople aren't the smooth talkers. They're the smart listeners who know that the power of the sale is in the questions they ask, not the words they say. If you master this one fundamental truth, you'll close more deals than all the gift-of-gab salespeople combined. And you'll build a career based on relationships, trust, and value instead of pressure, manipulation, and empty talk. That's how you win in sales. That's how you build lasting customer relationships. And that's how you separate yourself from everyone else who's still chasing the lie. Ready to Master the Art of Prospecting? Join us at Sales Gravy Live: Fanatical Prospecting Bootcamp in Atlanta, GA on March 10-11th. Two days of intensive training where you'll learn the proven systems and techniques that top performers use to fill their pipelines and crush their quotas. Stop guessing. Start prospecting like a pro. Register now at salesgravy.com/live.

Why Great Salespeople Are Great Listeners (Ask Jeb)

Here's a question I get asked all the time: What's the single biggest misconception holding salespeople back? That question came from a room full of college students at BYU-Idaho, ages 19 to 24, all exploring sales careers. And my answer…

How to Train MLM Recruits to Sell With No Sales Experience (Ask Jeb)

How to Train MLM Recruits to Sell Without Sales Experience (Ask Jeb)

Here's a question that'll make your head spin: How do you train MLM recruits who have zero sales experience to actually sell instead of just posting on social media and hoping for the best? That's the question Andrew Osborne from…

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Expert Tips for Writing World-Class LinkedIn Direct Messages

Every day, your prospects are assaulted by a digital firehose of generic, AI-generated emails and connection requests. It's an incessant barrage of noise, and as a survival mechanism, your buyers have learned to ignore it.  The world is learning to…

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The One-Question Revolution That Transforms Sales Discovery

What if one simple discovery question could close your next big deal? Here’s the one I used: “Tell me what’s going on with your team?” Then I shut up and listened. The buying committee talked, debated, and worked their way…